Pap smear questions! please help?

It is not painful, just slightly uncomfortable. You will be fine and looking into it way more than you need to. The dr will be experienced in it - they do them every day and you can tell them its your first one and you are nervous. Around 3 times a week my doctor gets girls coming in because their tampon is stuck up there - pap tests are so so important and once you have the first one you will realise it is nothing to worry about.